Not everyone has it easy in love! Some people have been burned before, and it makes it hard for them to love you back. If you find that your girl is having a hard time, here are a few reasons why:
- She doesn’t believe she is worthy of love — For whatever reason, your girl has this idea that she is unworthy of being loved. The fact that she doesn’t love you back will have nothing to do with you, but everything to do with her disbelief in her worthiness for happiness. The truth is that many people that suffer from low self-esteem find it hard to believe that anyone could love them, so they hold a part of themselves back to avoid the pain of rejection. If she is struggling to love you back, you need to show her that she really is worthy of the love you want to give her.
- She has suffered a lot –– You may know a lot about her, but there are things that you will never truly know. Perhaps she has been the victim of an assault, abuse, emotional trauma, or even physical trauma. Some of the crap she has been through, she won’t even remember! There are a lot of things that can get in the way of love, and pain is one of those things. Women who struggle to love are often trying to fight their own inner demons, and they need someone there to help them deal. Be that person, and you will eventually win her over and help her to love you for real. She will be all the more grateful for the fact that you stuck by her.
Find out more in Part 2…