A few small things can go a long way toward making her happy!
Here are a few simple acts of kindness that will earn you major brownie points:
- Give her a massage — At the end of a long day, nothing feels better than a massage. Whether it’s a back massage, a foot rub, or a head scratch, this simple gesture will earn you major points in her book. Just don’t do it with the expectation of a happy ending!
- Get her one, too — Grabbing yourself a bagel? Get her one, too! Picking up a cup of coffee on your way to her place? Bring her something, too! It’s a simple act of kindness, but it shows that you care enough to think about her.
- Listen to her –– DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT try to solve her problems, but just listen. She isn’t looking for a solution (unless she specifically asks for your advice). She just wants someone to hear her out and understand her problems. If you can learn to listen with your mouth shut, you’re going to earn serious brownie points with the missus.
- Give her space — Did you know that the line between attentiveness and clinginess is a VERY fine one? It’s important that you give your girl the attention she wants and deserves, but you have to be careful that you’re not overwhelming or smothering her. When she wants to do something else, encourage her to do it. Go out of your way to help her find things to do on her own, and make sure she understands that it’s because you love her, and not because you’re trying to get rid of her. She needs her space as much as you do!
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