It’s not always easy to date a girl who is strong, confident, and used to having things done her way. If you want to know how to date an independent girl, here’s what you need to know:
- Prepare for stubbornness — Many times, you will suggest something, and she will automatically reject or go against the idea. It has nothing to do with you or the idea itself, but it has everything to do with her not wanting to feel like she is being told what to do. She is accustomed to doing things her own way, so having someone else make decisions “for her” may feel odd or make her uncomfortable. It’s vital that you hold your ground on some decisions, but you need to let her win as well.
- Don’t worry if she doesn’t let you do things –– As a man, it’s in your nature to want to do things for the woman you love. Maybe it could be something as simple as taking care of her when she is sick, or buying her something she needs when she can’t afford it. But your independent girl is unaccustomed to people doing things for her, and it may make her uncomfortable at first. It’s not that she doesn’t want you to do things for her, it’s that she doesn’t know how to accept it.
- Leave her alone –– Especially in the beginning stages of your romance, your independent is going to need a lot of time to be alone. She’s going to struggle to process the way she feels, and she may need to get away to compose herself. It’s normal and has nothing to do with you!
Read Part 3 for a few more tips on dating an independent girl…
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