A one night stand can be awesome or a total disaster, depending on how you go about it! Here are a few one night stand mistakes to avoid:
- Cheating — A one night stand only works if both you and the other person are single. If you are married, it’s not cool to cheat on your spouse with a total stranger, no matter how attractive they are. If you are single and the other person is married, things could get dicey if their spouse finds out. Singles ONLY!
- High sexual expectations — Do you remember the last time you had sex with someone for the first time? Was it mind-blowing, earth-shattering sex? Probably not. It takes time to learn what your new sexual partner enjoys in the bedroom, and you don’t have that kind of time with a one night stand. Don’t expect the best sex of your life, and certainly don’t be disappointed if that hot guy or gal turns out to be less than a champion in the sack!
- Thinking about a future together — So you had a wonderful night together and you think, “Hey, I could really like this guy or girl!” You ask them out on a second date, and are immediately shot down, to your utter disappointment. Just because you had a great time on your one night stand, that doesn’t mean you’re going to end up dating. Some people have one night stands because that’s all they’re looking for! Go into your one night stand with that mindset and you won’t be disappointed.
- Lack of preparation –– “But it’s the guy’s job to bring the rubber!” you may insist. Well, it’s ALWAYS better to be safe than sorry. Always be prepared for whatever happens, and make sure your nightstand (or purse) has both condoms and lubricant, just in case.
Read Part 2 for more one night stand mistakes to avoid…
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